A Word of Praise, Now and Then

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This is a really good article by Barry Cohen in today’s Australian. Here’s the link, but you may need a subscription to read it.

Essentially, Cohen is arguing that it is actually good for a politician’s reputation to praise what “the other side” has done every now and then. Of course it is an opposition’s job to oppose, and you can gauge a system’s political freedom by how much dissent it allows, but voters are becoming increasingly sick of the partisan warfare that Australia is experiencing at the moment.
Probably the main reason this partisan warfare is so irritating is because it’s not a matter of principle. Take the Thomson affair for instance. If Abbott was prime minister and one of his backbenchers was in trouble he would be pleading rule of law and invoking the image of a kangaroo court, led by a power-hungry Julia Gillard shouting down the microphone that parliamentary standards be upheld. As Lenore Taylor points out, the roles would be reversed.

I am sure both Gillard and Abbott have principles, but at the moment their catfights are more about power than they are about principle. That our political elite would spend all their days shouting at each other in an undignified brawl over something as grubby as mere power is an ugly sight.

That is why politicians should judge all ideas on merit, instead of partisan loyalties. That is why the voters would reward a bit of praising the enemy now and then.

The fundamental reason bipartisanship is so rare is because Australian politics has entrenched political parties, where solidarity with the party is brutally enforced.

In the days of Australian federation, there were no parties. Individual politicians had positions and personal loyalties, but these could change over time. Governments tended to last only a few years, as premiers or Prime Ministers lost the support of a wayward backbench. This was both a blessing and a curse.

It was a curse because with no party line for MPs to vote along, governments were permanently unstable. It was a blessing because MPs were able to speak their mind without having to toe the party line.

I don’t mean to paint the early days as an age of political civility, but rather that having an allegiance to a political party means you must make the party look good, and that can easily involve making the other party look bad. Marching in lockstep with one party implies marching against the lockstep of the other party.

So sometimes, I think we would be better off if politicians were free to vote as they wanted, instead of having an allegiance to a party position they might not believe in. This would destabilise the process of polarising us as always Liberals who always oppose Labor, or vice versa.

I admit it is idealistic, but it is a good ideal.

Another Fall of Man

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I have finished the Star Was prequels.

So much stuff running through my mind. So many feelings all at once.

First of all, my melancholic side has to say that these movies were not quite as good as the originals.

The first two movies were pretty “meh”. They got better as they went along.

The third movie was incredibly intense and tragic. Tragedy doesn’t turn me off; quite the opposite. One reason I love Lord of the Rings is how it grapples with tragedy and loss.

“Better to go to the house of mourning Than to go to the house of feasting For that is the end of all men; And the living will take it to heart. Sorrow is better than laughter For by a sad countenance the heart is made better.”

-Ecclesiastes 7:2-3

And it was good to reflect on the pain and sorrow that Annakin’s anger and Palpatine’s greed wrought. To realise that sometimes good people die, and it’s not always in a blaze of glory like you see in the movies: Mace Windu, the Jedi Council, the Jedi younglings, Senator Aldemaar, Luke’s Uncle Lars and Padme were all murdered before the movies end. And they never got to see justice triumph over evil.

It was good to think about those things. But there was something else about the Revenge of the Sith. Something even bigger.

Shakespeare once wrote:

“For this revolt of thine, methinks, is like Another fall of man.”-Henry V, Act II, Scene 3.

When I first saw Annakin Skywalker as a cute little kid in the very first movie, and realised that he would turn into the horrible war criminal Darth Vader, I was, I don’t know- shocked- startled- stirred- I was struck.

Nine year old Annakin Skywalker was so lovable. But in little over a decade he turned into a monster. He let his anger kill dozens of innocent people- men, women, children. He tried to throttle his pregnant wife, he turned on his friends and his mentors. He fell.

It’s a funny word to use for moral degradation, isn’t it? He fell. What imagery does that make you think of? Every time I read it I see in my mind’s eye something like a Balrog from Lord of the Rings, plummeting down into the depths of an abyss from a great height. Falling speaks of decline, slipping, degrading, becoming much less than what you once were.

“And He said to them, “I saw Satan fall like lightning from heaven.” -Luke 10: 18

Padme pleaded with Annakin to stop his evil ways. “You’re a good person” she pleaded. But Annakin turned away. He fell.

You were the chosen one! You were meant to restore balance to the force … You were meant to destroy the Sith, not join them!”

-Obi-wan Kenobi

Annakin is all of us. We are no longer what we were meant to be. We were meant to love God, not to fight Him. But we sinned at Eden, and we continue sinning every day. We fell from the good thing that God made us to be.

I nearly want to watch the fourth, fifth and sixth movies now, to watch Luke Skywalker save his dad. I have watched the prequels, I have walked in the garden and seen the fall. Now I want to see Calvary and the tombstone rolled away. I want to see redemption.

But that’s not the way it works. Star Wars said Luke could save Annakin, but man can’t save man. We need the heroics of the God-man Jesus Christ, not the heroism of us or our friends, to pull us out of the mess of our own making.

Good, Star Wars was. But the whole truth, it was not. ;)

People-Time Thinking

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I was in the library catching up with some young friends from church last Monday. They’re friends of mine, and also friends of my siblings, who are about their age.

I decided it was time for me to go and do my next thing. Being the very easily disorganised sort, my mind was going: “right, time is 1:53, got book, check, got bag, check, right, okay, need to walk to the librarian’s desk, check out this book and walk to X’s house before 2. Okay, right, let’s do this!”  Very checklist, very task-orientated, very focussed.

As I’m striding out to the librarian’s desk, my sister’s friend (I think she’s about 9) walked up and put her hand on my arm, much like she does with my sister. It was very clear (in hindsight) that she was about to say something, some light conversation. In fact, I think she was taking a breath to talk when I told her I was heading off.

Immediately I realised she had just been about to say something (no idea what) which would have been a good, friendly chat, which I had plenty of time to stop and chat for. But now that I had declared my intention to be gone, the opportunity for this chat was gone too.

She just said “Oh okay bye!” and I headed out. I walked out kicking myself.

I mean, really, it’s no big deal. I didn’t rudely interrupt her, or cut her dead, or ignore her. And there’s plenty of time to chat other times.  It was just an unfortunate (mis)timing of communication. If I had paused for a moment longer, she would have said her thing, and we would have had a good conversation. It’s those types of nothing-chats that build friendships.  And that’s something I want to encourage with all my friends.

It’s happened a few times to me. I become so task-orientated or so focused on this “thing” that I am too slow to pick up the signals the other person is sending out. I’d be more than happy to respond to those signals so it’s not as if I’m trying to ignore them. I’m just not intentionally seeking them out therefore I miss them. This may be a social accident, but it’s not an accident I want to have.

It sounds like an impossible ask but I think this is the solution: if you are always, always, looking out for a chance to strengthen a friendship or build someone up, then your mind is ready to notice the opportunities.

When I think of all the wonderful older people in my life, who have such a friendly, relational approach to life, who mean so much to me I realise that’s the attitude they have. When I say “oh it’s so good talking to Mr Jones, he always has time for me” he really does “always have time” to build his relationship with me. He’s always ready to switch from “task” to “people”.

And when I realise just how much my friendship with those relational people means to me, I want to have that attitude too- so that I can make that switch from task to people too.

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